Whether she’s throwing petals or tearing up the dance floor, your flower girl is sure to steal the show at some point during your wedding day. Make sure she looks adorable and feels special while doing it!
Read on to learn everything you need to know about flower girls, and for our top tips for choosing a flower girl dress.
What You Need to Know About Flower Girls
It is important to understand the ins and outs of flower girls. This will ultimately help you to decide who to choose as your flower girl, what style and color dresses they should wear, and much more.
Flower girls are not essential in a traditional wedding, but they are a cute addition to any wedding, as they tend to be the youngest person that plays a role in the bridal party. Flower girls date back to Greek and Roman times when young girls carried herbs for the soon-to-be-married couple to inspire hope.
Who Can Be a Flower Girl?
A flower girl tends to be a child of a close friend or family member, for example, a cousin or niece.
How Many Flower Girls Can You Have?
There is no limit on the number of flower girls that you can include in your bridal party. If you do choose to have more than one, many brides will assign them different roles so that they can all be involved, such as holding your train as you walk down the aisle, walking with a pet, or throwing out petals.
What Age Should a Flower Girl Be?
The age range of a flower girl can be anywhere between 3-8 years old, so the roles may need to be chosen in accordance with their abilities and personalities.
What Dress Should a Flower Girl Wear?
The flower girl’s dress is traditionally different from the bridesmaids, and instead, similar to the bride’s gown. However, you can choose what you prefer, as many brides like to match the flower girls with the rest of the bridal party. Whether you choose to match the style, color or go for something bold, there is a range of flower girl dresses to choose from, so you have plenty of options.
Do Flower Girls Wear White?
Traditionally, the flower girl at your wedding will wear a white or ivory dress that matches your bridal gown. This used to be standard in a wedding, as white is known to represent purity, and reflect the transition between childhood to womanhood. While these are older traditions, white and ivory are still the most commonly used colors for flower girls to this day. There are also many brides who are choosing flower girl dresses that are more colorful. Some opt for a blend of white and a band of color, while others will go bold with a full colored dress. Some brides will also match their flower girl dress to their bridesmaids dresses and to the overall theme of their wedding.
What Are the Duties of a Flower Girl?
Flower girls can do whatever you wish, they do not have a set role or responsibility like the maid of honor. Many people believe that the flower girl’s role is simply to impress and charm the rest of the guests with their cuteness. This is true – the role of the flower girl includes making guests smile and scattering petals down the aisle ready for the bride. They should walk down the aisle after the bridesmaids but before the bride. They can do this on their own, or with assistance if required. As the role of a flower girl is not too complex, there is no strict guidance on what kind of dress they should wear. However, you may choose to consider their individual personalities. Learn more about using this information to help you choose the perfect flower girl dress for your big day!
Your Flower Girl Dress Guide
Decide on your wedding style.
First things first: make sure you have a clear idea of what your big day will look like. Time of day, style of flowers, your guests’ dress code – all of these things will impact your flower girl’s look. For instance, a black-tie evening affair might call for a longer, more elegant look, while a short-and-sweet frock is perfect for early afternoon.
Dress the rest of the wedding party first.
For a more cohesive look, have your bridesmaids’ dresses, groomsmen’s suits, and your own bridal attire selected before you move on to the younger members of your wedding party. If you’re going for a more traditional style, look to your own dress for inspiration to guide your flower girls’ attire. For your flower girl, choose something in a similar shape and fabric for an adorable “mini-me” vibe. Lace, covered buttons, and neckline are all details that can be translated into the flower girl’s dress.
Think about the color of the flower girl’s dress.
The color you choose for the flower girl dress is entirely up to you! We love the trend of letting the flower girl shine with a pop of color! Consider adding a sash or a headpiece or choosing a style with a beautiful colored bodice. Our flower girl dresses feature the same fabrics and shades as our bridesmaid’s dresses for perfect coordination.
Keep in mind your flower girl’s age and personality.
Chances are, your flower girl will be putting her dress to the test more than any other member of the wedding party. Think sticky fingers and impromptu games of tag. Keep this (along with your flower girl’s own spunky style!) in mind when choosing her dress. An older girl might jump at the chance to wear a floor-length dress, while an active toddler would be better off in a knee-length look. Either way, fabrics that allow for movement are the best choice. We love tulle and organza in a swingy A-line for exactly this reason!
Plan ahead – but not too far.
When to get the flower girl’s dress is a tricky topic. One thing we know for sure about little ones: they grow fast. Unlike your bridesmaid’s dresses, which should be squared away much sooner, we recommend ordering your flower girl’s dress around three to four months before the wedding. This allows for time to make small alterations if needed and minimizes the chance that she outgrows it completely!
Choosing the flower girl’s dress should (hopefully!) be a low-stress wedding task that’s fun for both of you. If your flower girl is old enough, narrow it down to three looks and let her make the final decision. Browse our beautiful range of flower girl dresses, and find the perfect fit.
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